I hear people say all the time. It’s all about who you know. To get ahead, you have to know the right people. This is so frustrating, if you DON’T know the right people. So the challenge this week is to reach out to people you don’t know and get to know them. If you know of a person that can help you and get you to where you need to be. Contact them and offer to buy them lunch. You might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome. And you may just make a new friend.
When you love someone, you should love with your heart. Give of yourself and don’t be selfish.
When you love someone, it means nothing, if you don’t show them in some way by treating them with respect and care.
If you love someone, you don’t wish them evil. You don’t want to see them destruct.
When you love someone, you should build them up, and they should do the same.
You see saying you love someone, sounds nice, but has little meaning if you treat them with malice and hate.
True love and sex make a great combination. As sex with a person who is selfish is totally lame. You just can’t wait for it to be over.
When you love someone, sex is communication between both of you, and you give of yourself, so that each of you can feel the gift and benefit from it.
When you love someone, show them.
When you love someone, let them experience the truth. Throw away all the lies. They deserve it.
When you love someone, love with your heart and your actions.
Sometimes the world feels like it is on a fast spin. Things are happening fast and life is just passing you by. You sit and wonder, where has the time gone. My biggest thing lately has been comparing myself to others who are “successful.” I sit and say: What have I done? What will be my legacy? Then I realize that we are on this earth for a very relatively short period of time. It is why some people do whatever it is they want in the face of criticism and judgement. You see, it’s your life. Make something of it. Not by other people’s standards but by what you know is just and true to you. Should you suffer and be cynical or just try and spend every waking moment finding joy. You see. I heard someone say that true love doesn’t exist. That it only happens in the movies. That everyone has to work hard all their lives so that they can “retire”. That you have to be skinny. That you have to live in a certain neighborhood. That you have to have certain things. That you have to wear certain clothes. It’s so confusing. It’s so much to achieve and overwhelming. My take today is, Just Relax! That’s right. Just relax. It will be over fast enough. Enjoy the ride.
Lately, I find myself asking for help and relying a bit too much on other people. After all, we all need each other, don’t we? But This morning I tell myself: It all boils down to self-discipline. Decide what you need to do. Acknowledge temptation. Just decide that you will resist it. Write the temptation down on a piece of paper. Ball it up and throw it away or burn it. Decide that today, your life is your own. No apologies. No excuses. No one to blame. No one to rely on. Today it is just you and yourself. Say that you are strong. List the actions you need to take. Take them. Just do it. Then get up tomorrow and do it again.
No matter what happens, you have to use your talent to the fullest. It doesn’t matter if you have 5 people following your blog or 5 million people. You have to share your talent with much care and enthusiasm. I have to sing my heart out regardless of how many people show up to the event. Whatever it is that you do, sweeping a floor, writing a book, designing clothes, being a parent, being a cashier, running a business, doing art, photography, music, etc; do it well. Give it your best shot. Don’t bury it.